Sexually empowered women

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A little bit of history

Since ancient times, female figures have been worshiped in different cultures, and their main Deities and Goddesses have been related to the Creative Power of Women.

The masculine role in the procreation process was unknown, and therefore, giving birth to a new person was as amazing as it was for the tree to grow, the flower to blossom and the crops to produce food.

​Women were in a privileged position; they were considered holly, wise, and guardians of the miracle of life. Even the Earth was feminine; they called her “Mother Earth”.

And there, it was “Gaia”, the great Mother of all; Shakti, for the Hinduism; Isis for the Egyptians; Ishtar (Inanna) for the Babylonians and Assyrians; Aphrodite, Artemis, Athena were goddesses for the Ancient Greeks; and so on for different cultures and religions. 

Along with the Judeo-Christian tradition, the idea of a Male God was developed, and Phalocracy was then reinforced in society. The Deity of the Virgin Mary was stripped from her Sexual Force, focusing only in the attributes related to care and protection. The dichotomy known as “Mother – Whore” took relevant importance, and women were classified according to their sexual behaviour. 

They were forced to choose between these two roles, being one reinforced by Society and Culture, and the other one considered as a disgrace, a sin, and a shame. Sexual Power was then taken away, and being receptive and dominated were the only attributes left to the feminine sexuality. 

​Male Power through Sexual Domination

When you really want to dominate something, either a country, or a person, you have to go to the core, to the source of its power. If you do not start from there, you just hold a little chance to succeed.
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​Men wanted to be in power; the Societies, the Governments, and the Religions were based on a Phallocracy, which even now is still being used around the globe. 
 
Dominating women trough sex was the only chance that men had to eliminate the immense power that feminine sexuality had always had over Human Kind. Rape and sexual submission were used to put men in power, and using force and strength were the main tools they had to “conquer the world”.

Women who had the power to influence men were hunted as witches, prostitutes, or simply banned from society, especially if they used their sexual energy in doing that.

Men were now in charge of feminine sexuality, used only and if they wanted, the way they wanted, and in many cases, women’s pleasure was banned from the act. And silently women agreed - and some still are.

What happens when women lose Centre?

​Women have always been at the centre of creation, we have a privileged place in the world. Everything revolves around us.

When a woman moves to the outer edges of the spectrum (the masculine “role”), it is, loses her Centre, the equilibrium burst and it becomes chaotic. By design, the Centre was meant to keep the forces in harmony; it does not need to do anything to hold everything in place. But if for any reason, it moves to a different place, it becomes part of the chaotic movement being held around, and its power diminishes.

It does not mean that we have to support the system; we were designed to keep it running. Our role is part of it, as equally important is the men role in it. We have to be aware of our gravity (sexual) power to keep it in motion. That does not make us better or worse than men, but different and complimentary. 

The 60’s were a milestone in regaining feminine power. Women around the world became aware of masculine oppression and decided to do something about it. In order to make the desired changes, they tried to validate themselves trough sexual freedom, but not finding the exact balance between both genders. 

They declared themselves emancipated women, meaning that they were not just in power of their sexuality, but in power as well of their thinking, their decision making, and the privilege to get  pregnant and give birth. Along with these, they started a war against the dominating gender, sating them as “the enemy” to fight.

The Centre was then left vacant, there was no one holding the harmony of the system. This gender fight was bleeding both sexes to death. There was no winner, but two losers.

The auto regulation of the system was being forced to act, and women started to go back to the Centre, realising that this competence with the opposite sex would not lead to a successful place.

By going back to the Centre, I do not mean to be back in the old practice of Phalocracy, where men decide over women, especially regarding sexuality. I mean going back to our former glory, where we were recipients of the Power trough Sexuality. We need to own our bodies, our will to use it, and the right to have pleasure and be responsible of our satisfaction, but not from a superior or dependent position, but from realising our important task in the Human Society.

We cannot fight each other; we are compliments of the same System. It is the only way to keep everything moving smoothly and running according to the original design. 

Being in the Centre and gaining back the Sexual Power

The sexual drive is stronger than any force, energy or desire. If we are in charge of our own, it will allow us to influence not only our partner, but the whole community as well.

We need to gain back the certainty that we are powerful and influential, capable of changing things, create new ones, and contribute to the happening of improvements.

It is time to help other women to be responsible of their own Sexuality and the Power within it. If we feel pleased with our sexual performance, and satisfied with the outcome of it, not relying in our partners and/or their actions to feel complete, we are going to feel more secure, more in charge, and more in power.

It is the time now to reinforce that Sexual Power is not the same as Genital Power, it is more than that.

It involves life, will, desire, passion.

We are the Temple of Creation, The Source or Wisdom, The Equilibrium of Human Kind.

What can I do to be an Empowered Woman?

First of all, I have to be really aware of the stereotypes that society enforces and expects from me. Some would be useful, but most of them are really out to date.

In order to be an Empowered Woman trough my sexual energy, I have to be clear in the understanding of my sexuality. Having desires, feelings and sensations is completely normal and healthy. This is the first step to live as a Sexual Being.

The only vehicle that I have to experience this energy is my body. Hence, it is important that I get to know it, my erogenous zones, my likes and dislikes, and be truthful about them. I have to be really familiar with the idea that my body is the best way to feel the energy that flows from within, from my creative power.

Once I am aware of this enormous energy, and star to enjoying it, it will be much easier to fell happy, fullfilled, creative, properous, capable, influential, energetic and empowered out there, succeeding in my community. 

Our power does not come from strength, from force; it comes from a more powerful energy that is so smooth that sometimes can be underestimated. It comes from seducing, not from conquering; it comes from our core, from our heart.